Most people I know are a mixed bag. Lots of good qualities, a few bad ones. Some of the people I feel the worst for are the ones who could be doing so much better but sabotage themselves for one reason or another. I recently reconnected with an old friend who is doing much better than he used to, but found his soulmate through a psychic experience and continues to creep her out while waiting for their big chance to get together. He even knows that it creeps her out but he is convinced he just has to be patient. Some people are just full of these sorts of things to the point of being complete trainwrecks. FOCUS: who is the biggest trainwreck you know? Tell funny stories about how they sabotage everyone around them.