Since we did this thread, lets do the opposite. I fucked up the first real relationship I was in. She was pretty and way out of my league. Although a bit sparse in the brain department, she was a good person. Because I was young and immature and not exactly confident with myself, that caused things to circle the drain within a few months. My attitude pushed her away and into the arms of another which, in the end, was a self-fulfilling prophecy for myself. I dont exactly regret my actions because I may not have been where I am with future wife had that turned out differently and it was a good learning experience, but I had to reexamine myself before diving back into something with someone else. Focus: Ever been the cause of an unhealthy relationship? Alt. Focus: How have your past relationships shaped who you are today, for better or worse?