Adult Content Warning

This community may contain adult content that is not suitable for minors. By closing this dialog box or continuing to navigate this site, you certify that you are 18 years of age and consent to view adult content.

Who needs Judge Dredd? We've got Judge Adams!

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by WickedBitch, Nov 2, 2011.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. gtg2k

    gtg2k
    Expand Collapse
    Experienced Idiot

    Reputation:
    0
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    170
    Location:
    The House That Lawler Built
    No, my friend, that was discipline. From the way it sounds, you didn't fill him with terror. You merely told him why you were spanking him, spanked him, and backed it up with further punishment.

    Sounds like you're a pretty good parent.
     
  2. McSmallstuff

    McSmallstuff
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    2
    Joined:
    Nov 18, 2009
    Messages:
    1,504
    As I repped Mr. Tuffmen, I feel that was completely reasonable. Clearly that kid felt any punishment he received was well worth his dickish behavior. So reaching into a new (old) bag of tricks was more than reasonable. It was not beating, it was fairly administered punishment to let a kid know that he fucked up. I say no flag on the play.
     
  3. shimmered

    shimmered
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    351
    Joined:
    May 12, 2010
    Messages:
    4,469
    Needed his ass beat.
    You handled it well.
    He was afraid it meant you didn't love him.
    You fixed that.
    You're doing great.
     
  4. E. Tuffmen

    E. Tuffmen
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    53
    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2009
    Messages:
    904
    Location:
    Negative space
    Wow. Overwhelmingly positive response. Thank you all. It must have been bothering me more than I thought because I feel a lot better about it.
     
  5. Popped Cherries

    Popped Cherries
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    143
    Joined:
    Oct 26, 2009
    Messages:
    1,712
    Location:
    NY

    While I agree what you did isn't even close to the main topic that was being discussed here, the above stuck out from your post.

    Do you think if you didn't spank him and instead just followed through with a stern talk and telling him that he was losing his time with you that evening, you would have gotten the same result?
    Was spanking him the catalyst for his follow up behavior or do you think you could have achieved the same reaction without having to go that route?
     
  6. Gator

    Gator
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    0
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    1,062
    There are times where reasoning and explaining yourself is appropriate and there are times where a quick swat on the ass is required. And if you have to hit a kid more than once, there are larger problems at hand.

    And it's not the severity of the punishment, it's the swiftness with which it is handed down. A quick pop sends a message that there is no gray area there, whatever just happened will not be tolerated.

    I would go so far as to say that denying him the special time is far worse that the quick swat on the ass. That special one on one time should never be used as a reward or punishment. It just is. If he wants to continue being an ass during that time, then you can get up and say good night and walk away, but you shouldn't purposely deny him that time. Trust me, it's not going to last forever and you will beg to have those moments back once they are gone.
     
  7. DrFrylock

    DrFrylock
    Expand Collapse
    The White

    Reputation:
    23
    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2009
    Messages:
    1,579
    Like the beating that inspired it, this thread has gone on too long.
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.