If anyone has read my recent Rant on the board, they would know that currently I am in a situation that involves dealing with my uncle who I consider to be the lowest form of a human being on the face of the planet and that is putting it nicely. This man has slapped me around when I was 12 and he was 45, he has made my mothers life hell since they were 10, he has made my 14 year old sister cry for a week, and now he has sucessfully made my grandma passing away all about him in an effort to control everything. Some highlights of this mans life include, completely pushing away all of his blood family to the point were no body wants anything to do with him now that his mother is dead. He has also taken in 2 kids from the ghetto of the Bronx as his god kids and treated them better then me and my sister, his flesh and blood nephew and niece. When I was 12 he told me I was "A fucking retarded little kid who will amount to nothing in life because I am little asshole who is as stupid as a fucking rock" all because he thought I slammed his car door too hard getting out of it, WHEN I WAS 12 YEARS OLD! This is just a small list of things this man has done to me in my life to make me hate him. Focus: Have you ever had someone in your family, someone flesh and blood to you, that made your life a living hell? Did they constantly talk to you like your stupid, did they treat your siblings like shit? What did they do to you that made you never want to speak to them again? Focus 2: How did you get back at them? How did you let them know how you feel? Did you call the cops and have them arrested or a restraining order? Did you write them a letter, did you tell them to their face, or did you bottle it up for years and just not talk to them? I have tried to reason with this man and talk to him like an adult to tell him that the way he treats me and my family is not right, and is uncalled for. The problem, he is 53 and he is not an adult, he is a fucking 2 yr old, there is no reasoning with him. So instead, I am looking for methods to tell him or get back at him. I am considering writing a very long letter detailing how I have hated him for 15 years, but if anyone here has better ideas or suggestions, I might just use one if I like it.