Welp, it's happened.

I would let my significant other do it.

I'm 99.9 percent certain that I dated a girl that was in at least one porno. Not just some film between 2 people and the camera on a tripod, posted in the amateur section on the site. It obviously had a camera man or two and some level of professional lighting.

I watched it over and over, paused it over and over, trying to make sure what I was seeing, it looked like her and sounded like her. The timing of the video would have put her in college, we started dating after she graduated and I didn't find the video until after we broke up. I would have asked her if it was her. She was the wildest girl, sexually, that I've ever dated, being in a film is something she would absolutely do.

 

"Sex work is work!" they yell across the breadth and depth of the internets. "Not for my daughters of course, but for yours it is an old and proud profession" is what they don't say in public, or even in private - the hypocrisy runs deep. So I guess my answer is no...? God help me if I ever need to pay a pornstress to pretend she knows me.

 

I know a BUNCH of folks who do the OF thing, but to my knowlege, none of them are particularly good at it.

There's even a platform for women (I guess?) who sell used panties..called Sniffr. You can't make this shit up, and that proves we live in the stupidest, worst possible reality.

I have complex opinions on it. For one thing, do with your body what you will, sure...but there is a cost to this sort of thing. It definitely limits some career options, and the internet never forgets. I can envision a lot of issues with this over the next few decades. It's one thing to send nudes to a partner, or do a random "r/gonewild" post for shiggles, it's another to masturbate in front of strangers for money. I predict there will be a fuzzier line between porn star, social media star and traditional media star in the coming years.

I spent a little time in Indonesia, and got an unexpected tour of one of the sex districts in Surabaya, the sex (and presumably child) trafficking capital of Asia, maybe the world. There were children for sale on the streets...not even like "hey, a little peach fuzz on the field, play ball" kind of blurry line. I mean, less than 10 years old. The story I was told is that wealthy Muslim men would fly into Surabaya, "marry" these girls/women, consummate for as long as they wished, and then get "divorced" on their way back to whereever. It makes the poop hole loop hole pale by comparison.

My takeaway from that is that sex as an industry works like any other industry. If you do it in the developed world, you probably have some sort of protections against rape, exploitation, etc. But it's a pyramid, and the people at the bottom of the pyramid simply don't have that protection, in any sense. A girl using OF to pay off student loans (Or what the fuck ever) here is only mildly embarassing her parents and putting herself at risk of a future scandal. A girl in Guatemala, Pakistan or Indonesia might be coerced into doing it against her will by various entities, including her own parents (for reals)....and it creates a ton of potential victims.

Also, I think one of the goals of modern feminism is for women's value to be more than just a source of pussy. There have been tremendous strides in the last few years, and I cringe at the notion that OF is somehow empowering. I think it just provides a more direct avenue for an Instagram ho to become an actual ho. Good work if you can get it, I suppose, but I wouldn't waste a dollar on it, and wouldn't entertain it from a partner.

For me, sex in all it's wild and whacky manifestations is private, shared and free.

 

Bartender I use to know did a couple porn shoots (shots?) but I've never been able to watch the entire clip. Just some oddball sites that give you a short preview and then want you to pay. From what I did see, I wasn't terribly impressed. Then again, I'm sure if some girl saw me laying the wood on some B level porn set, they wouldn't be terribly impressed either.

 

I could give a fuck what someone is into sexually, as a general rule. Don’t fuck kids or animals, be safe, be consensual, blah blah blah.

My issue with this amateur trend is the ripple effect it’s going to have on kids. The internet is forever, and kids are merciless. Fuck, people are merciless. It’s bad enough to grow up with 15 year old Billy Scumsack the hockey star calling your mom a whore. It’s impossible to deal with when you know she actually is.

Quite frankly, putting verifiable pictures of yourself out in the wild is a terrible idea. I’m painting in broad strokes here, but there aren’t a lot of happy endings to be had. Unless of course you count your kid’s little friends blowing loads watching you get elbows deep in yourself.

I know a few from back home who recently got into it. Mid-30s, teen moms who have adult children that they clearly just don’t give a shit about I guess.

I would do anything and everything to stop my wife from doing it. We have kids, one of which has enough fucking problems (autism, fragile X) without heaping this nonsense on top of it.

 

The normals will never look at it as not porn. The porn industry needed a new business model, and OF is a step in that evolution, from cam girls to this.

Go to any Wal-mart and see women that are...less than traditionally attractive, much less with a body people would pay to see. I can't imagine these people seeing someone with an OF in a PTA meeting or across the meeting room in the office and appreciating their right do with their body what they will. I suspect the feeling would be just the opposite: jealousy, disgust, and the full cycle of Karen-esque rage, clutching their pearls all the way.

I think there will be less of a stigma for someone like AOC or Jennifer Lawrence having nudes circulate on the internet, but no way someone like Riley Reid or Jenna Jameson escapes that mutant form of celebrity into a "normal" life. Some of the content creators I know of are making kink stuff with a very specific curated niche, and I don't see that being de-stigmatized. Hell, the social stigma is part of the appeal for some of them.

Strangely, we're more accepting of the folks perpetuating this by indulging their particular depravities than the folks making the indulgences. I can't imagine a ton of jobs would fire a dude for purchasing used panties or sending an OF creator tons of cash to jerk off to videos of their feet, if they were outed. I can imagine a lot more fallout for the creator in question, especially when it comes to things where character comes into question, like custody battles or jobs where blackmail and bribery are concerns (law, government, IT security).

The stigma may fade away in some circles, and persist in others. Moms, schools, and other kid-centered stuff might overlook it, especially if they make a show of penance. Certainly in professions like law and government, where blackmail is a concern, I don't see the stigma fading away. I have to assume many of these women are angling for an Mrs.career, trophy wife or something tangentially close to it, but I don't think it will ever narrow an entire workforce. Plenty of social media managers who don't show strangers their cummy pussy graduate every May.

Ultimately, it boils down to privacy. When you have several trillion-dollar companies invested in the data, I don't think regulation will ever arrive that offers widespread protection. You might have a case or two that gets some attention, such as someone filing a suit for getting fired because someone saw their twat cam or whatever, but there's already precedent for that. We're still in the early stages of having our entire lives documented for the world to see, and I can't imagine the sexual proclivities of people willing to put themselves out there just suddenly being declared a safe space.

 

Believe it or not, Jungle Julia and I thought of doing this; we'd sell her underwear, and I'd manage the account.
She's got a really nice smell/ taste, so we thought they should sell like gangbusters.

But after some research, we found out that a lot of the potential customers can be really demanding about the condition of the underwear (ex: must have been worn for several days in a row), also, most of them want photos of them being worn, and JJ didn't want to do that.

Ultimately, we thought it was going to be more trouble than it would be worth.

With that said, I wouldn't stand for her having an Onlyfans account. I know that she'd have a lot of followers, but I wouldn't stand for it.

There were other women in my past that I'd probably have allowed it; but, then again, I wasn't that serious about them, either.

 

I believe it. It's so bizarre to me to purchase, but to sell? Nah, I get it. I see lingerie going at Vickie's Secret for $2-3/pair sometimes (or less in other places), so there's not a lot of cost, and it's not hard to manage the transaction with a lot of anonymity. You get to be smelly and weird for a few days, for some extra cash? I can see it being not an unreasonable appeal.

I know a girl who used FetLife pics from someone else to sell hers, and that was problematic, but....meh? If you're a professional dominatrix, I can't imagine you have strong moral arguments against the practice, just having your pics stolen and repurposed.

 

OnlyFans is a great thing for strippers to cover having the bars closed for two years. Now they don’t have to leave their house anymore to go get treated like sex slaves by bikers in a dive, and the guy paying for her doesn’t have to listen to her meandering coke-up bullshit. Win-win for that situation.

 

Should I not have been using pics from the boobie thread to sell my used socks for the last six years?

 

I don’t know, man…I’ve browsed MFC, I’ve browsed Reddit. Some of those OF girls definitely cater to the lovers of the Wal-Mart body. Different strokes for different…strokes?

 

Well you only need to head over to the boobie thread to see what Jägerette thinks about sharing nude photos with strangers. She is very comfortable nude, and has no self shame, probably helps from a combination of being Swedish and conventionally attractive/skinny giving her a egotistical high sense of self-worth.

She has modeled nude professionally, so pictures of her nude with her face out there, and because of the general lack of prudishness here in Europe nothing would come of it should coworkers find out. She also liked sharing more explicit pictures before the porn community sites shut down still images a couple years back, but naturally there was nothing identifiable in any of those, no faces, tattoos blurred out.

So when OF started taking off she discussed monetizing her pictures and creating special content, since getting cash would make up for any higher chance of being identified.

But then what Kahn mentioned in a later post about dudes using it to degrade women is what turned her off to it. Thirsty dudes being able to contact her at will or asking for degrading stuff (sure she can block agressive dudes, or deny weird requests) took away her feeling of truly being in control. Because she felt that if the dollar amount offered was enough she wouldn’t be able to turn down a request she normally wouldn’t do and would regret it later.

 

Wait, what? AOC has nudes floating out there?

 

Not yet.....look man, I am up in those DM's, so I'm trying ffs.

 

If only that insurrection had succeeded…