People have an enraging/hilarious habit of not seeing themselves for who they are. For all they know, they embody the very type of person they hate and can never own up to it, so instead they sugarcoat their own personalities to make sure that they never seem like the villain. Of course, another person cut from the exact same cloth will seem like a total asshole to them. Are YOU one of these people? Here's what I mean: They: ...get blackout drunk at social get-togethers, make complete assholes of themselves and humiliate them and everybody around them. You: ...are the life of the party. They: ...abuse their authority as a supervisor and shamelessly push their co-workers around just to make themselves feel special. You: ...show true leadership strength and quality. They: ...let their kids run around in public like mad, screaming primates and ignorantly tune them out despite the fact they are obnoxious little shits. You" ...believe in educating your children with the freedom of choice and let them enjoy the thrills of discovery. They: ...are bitchy, fault-finding nit pickers that find negativity in everything that you do and can never be satisfied. You: ...have an eye for detail. They: ...bang everything on two legs, pissing on the joy of real love and/or a quality relationship while thinking this single life ride will last forever. You: ...are popular. Focus: Classic examples of "They vs. You". Go. Alt-Focus: What personal experiences have you had with these types of people?