With the untimely deaths of Clarence Clemons and Ryan Dunn looming over us, it got me thinking about opportunities taken and missed. I am glad I got to see Clarence play with the E-Street band a couple times, because that is fucking legendary. I actually almost got to see Dunn once, too - I attended a stop on the very random Dunn & Vito Rock Tour (it was free, OK?), but Dunn did not show up and sent Raab Himself in his place. So for that night it was the Raab and Vito Rock Tour. I did get to see Don Vito, though, before he was legally banned from being Don Vito. FOCUS: What event or experience did you turn down (or accept?) that you later regretted? RULE: We're not talking about hypothetical what-ifs, like you wish you had married an architect, not had three babies with your baby mama, and gone to live in Polynesia. I'm talking about a specific, punctuated event where you had the opportunity to say "yes, I will do that" or "no, I won't" and you said the wrong thing.