Tonight I was surrounded by a multitude of successful, fairly attractive men. Being Persian, they all were wearing shiny shirts and belts. After talking to some of them, I realized they were all fairly decent guys, but I just couldn't take them seriously. I mean, if I can't look at their shirts without getting blinded, it's safe to say there is no potential for a relationship. I despaired that "peacocking" (hate that term) had to be so undesirable, because otherwise these would be great guys, but I just can't stand the damn shiny shirts. So I wondered, what other hangups do people have? Is everything going fine on a date until they mention they have three cats? Does monkey neck make your stomach churn? Do you find the hooker in the freezer too cliche to be sexy? Focus: What absolutely turns you off from a person?