That age-old debate

I am...not kidding you?

It wasn't entirely clear that the guy PinkCup was with knew what he was doing was bad, especially since she'd be ok with it on occasion. Even things that should be obvious aren't always to people and I was just wondering whether she explicitly told him that wasn't cool (or whether he explicitly knew).

 

Gotcha.
That makes more sense.
I'm just saying that if a guy knows something hurts, in a bad way, continuing is kind of a dick move.

 

Same, at just the right angle i can bottom out on my wife. I always hate it when i do it.

 

Speaking from... definitely not experience no sir, mid-fuck it's sometimes hard to differentiate between "oh that feels good" and "oh fuck you are breaking my vagina" noises.

 

Owgoddammitstop is a pretty good hint it's not okay.

 

Agreeing to allow his cock back into my vagina after he'd withdrawn it =/= being okay with the cervix slamming.

But to be more clear: yes, I said it hurt. Every time. Didn't say it in an "ooh, yeah baby, hurt me with your huge dick" kind of way...more like "OW OW OW okay I'm done" or "OW OW OW, don't pull out again/please just stay inside me now." Can't remember specifics, but I do remember clearly communicating that I was unhappy with the cervix slamming and getting boyishly grinned at in return.

If I have to sternly verbalize "If you continue to do X again, I will revoke consent" to a sex partner, I feel like it'd just be better to find another sex partner altogether. There are too many dicks in this world for me to waste my time trying to teach one of them the nuances of polite sexual behavior.

 

oh my god this.
That fucking grin...like.."Whaaat? what'd I doooo?" is both insulting and infuriating.
It's not cute. It's not funny. It's one hundred percent an act of "look what I can do and you can't really do anything about it at that moment other than squeal and withdraw because MY COCK IS SO BIG I AM SUCH A MAN!"

grrr. Rah. Anger.

 

So I guess the general diagnosis is guys with huge rods are usually sadistic dingbats?

I mean, that shit sounds horrendous. You should butt a cigarette out on their taint while they're sleeping. Serisously.

 

Somewhere between 'large' and 'average' exists a very narrow window in which a man knows he could never be featured in any pornographic productions, yet still possesses enough swagger to send pictures of his erect member to females of his acquaintance.

Where's THAT poll option?

 

Wasn't trying to imply that it had to be that explicit -- it seems clear that he knew it wasn't wanted, and is thus fucked up. It's really unsettling when people can see a sexual partner in pain and not feel any compulsion about it.

 

And THAT man is usually a really good lover.
Being a skilled lover, even if it's a one night stand, is a good thing. Yes, some people should be hate fucked, but generally speaking, I want my partner to enjoy sex beyond the thought of "WOOOHOOO I'm getting LAAAAIIIIIDDD!"
Guys with super sized cocks seem to think 80% of the work is done.

 

Yeah, good luck with that. Fucking, making love, cold stroking, one night stand or long-term-relationship, thirty seconds or thirty minutes, that's pretty much the only thing I'm thinking besides don't fart, don't fart, don't fart.

 

Something tells me those guys are just assholes, regardless of dick size. I'm "above average" (perfectly happy with it too) and bottom out easily in some positions, which means I've got to hold back then and that ain't as much fun. Better than ramming my girlfriend's cervix though, which I am very aware of.

 

I'm sorry, I didn't know we'd met. April? Is that you?

 

The fuck? You gotta stop banging 14-year-olds.