Common sense tells me we've done this thread before, but my searching only brings up snippets of comments in the Men/Women threads. I'm in the middle of a debate with a guy about this right now, and if it's interesting for two people to talk about, I see no reason why it wouldn't be interesting to dredge it up again.... When having sex, is having a large penis a good thing or a bad thing? I know I've said it here before, but my vote is for average. I think it allows the most amount of variety with the least amount of pain. Extra girth is not a bad thing, but extra length will kill you (IMO). Let me see if I can figure out the poll thing finally.
Gigantic schlongs can give urinary tract infections. Plus, every urinal conversation starts with "Dude, I ain't gay or anything BUT..."
I'm a bit above average in both measurements, but I'd like to be a bit bigger, if only to have a girl react with surprise or know that she's told my friends I'm big. Misogynistic? Maybe, but figured I'd be honest. I've never had complaints about size, and an ex said she expect worse given my body type, but everyone wishes they had a baby arm like Parker.
I know your dick is an extension of your ego, but lets be real here. It's about 6 inches from the mouth of my giner to my cervix. However, a big rear end extends that distance. Win?
I've always been happy with my length and girth. I couldn't imagine walking around with a 10 inch cock.
Average FTW. Big penis + small vagina = discomfort at least, outright tear-inducing (as in crying, though I suppose both interpretations fit) pain at worst. Also, personal anecdote, I've found that those with bigger dicks think that their size magically makes them amazing in bed, so they make little to no effort to actually make the sex enjoyable. Yeah, yeah, I could helpfully, not so subtly suggest they do more than lie there with an erection pointing skyward, but I get so irritated at the inherent laziness that I stop caring. And then I just never have sex with them again. Problem solved. Best partners I've ever had were both (a) of average size, (b) uncircumcised, and (c) damn foreigners. I'd still hatefuck one into oblivion and make sweet, dirty love to the other.
There are things the tongue and mouth can do that the penis, no matter how big, cannot do. Before you all go accusing me of anything; average length, above average girth here.
For all the time people spend talking about size, I feel like it's a really insignificant factor in the good sex equation.
I care more about size when it comes to giving head than when it comes to sex. It is much more satisfying and sexy when the guy is on the bigger side, and I get kind of embarrassed or feel silly or something if it's small. I guess there's more of the visual aspect of it too. I can't tell too much of a difference between an average guy and a bigger-than-average guy when we're actually having sex. My poon's only so roomy, and is apparently small, so if it reaches a certain size then it's just kind of...extra penis hanging around. As others have mentioned, if it's big it can hurt (cervix ramming is THE WORST), and I agree with PG that they can have this mindset that they've brought a big dick into bed so that's all they have to do. But, I'm not going to lie. Small penises make me sad. Really sad. Thinking about the smallest one I've encountered in person can cast a rain cloud over my whole day.
Where's the "I'm a guy, and I don't give a shit" option? My dick is my dick, I wouldn't "prefer" it to be any particular size. It's not like I could wish upon a star and magically change it. I prefer that it works. That's about it. Above-average length, don't know girth.
That explains the black guys/fat white girls thing, I guess. I'm basically average, maybe sliiiightly above, would prefer to be an inch or two bigger but I'd take what I've got over an 11-inch freak show.
I gotta agree with all of this. I'm slightly above average in both length and girth. Which I think is what girls are looking for when they say they want "Big". Because I've also heard girls talk about the ones that were "Woah"... Too big. I dunno. I'm comfortable where I'm at. Big enough to please anyone that isn't a size queen. And if she is, not the girl for me. And the old hack saying is true, from what I've heard from friend's wives. "It more about how you move it." I'm assuming that once it's average +- 20%, it really is about how well you work it. Maybe not minus, but anything above average, until you get to monster.
I'm 5'3" and about 100 pounds. Suffice to say, I'm relatively small in most areas (except the bust). I enjoy looking at a big schlong, in that way you look at a lion at the zoo. "It's so pretty but it can bite my face off!" When I see a guy with large junk, it's more of a "Holy shit, that's hot. I don't want that near me because you'll tear my 'giner in half, but it's nice to look at." I'm also with the girls here that said it's how you use it. My shitbag college boyfriend was on the larger side but was the worst goddamn lay I've ever had. The boy is average in length and width and it's the best sex I've had.
I consider myself at least average length and girth when I'm erect, but I just wished that my dick didn't shrivel up to 2" or less (depending on the temperature) when I'm not. It is ridiculous and I don't even feel presentable most of the time.
Ditto. I wouldn't mind being bigger, but I haven't had any complaints. Then again, it's tough to make out what a woman is saying with the duct tape covering her mouth.
I knew a cock-size queen. She showed me a picture of her sucking off her boyfriend. He had a cock that you rarely even see in porn, it was like 2 coke cans stacked on each other. I asked how she could handle it inside of her, and she said that it was tough at first but she stretched out until it fit. I figured despite being above average, there was no point in trying to get with her as I would not fill her cockspectations. But a tight vagina can also be a game changer. When I first started dating jägerette her vag was actually tough to get into, and it felt like it had a death grip on my dick, which meant that I came a lot faster until she got loosened up. Her gyno actually asked her "so do you have a new boyfriend?" during a check up because it was the first time the doc didn't have to use the child sized speculum. Is this the thread where we post pictures of our cock to prove our manliness? NSFW why did you click this you perv?