My Mother can push my buttons like no one else. She's told me I'd hit menopause early, because she did. She's told me I'd go grey early, because she did. She has the uncanny ability to completely donkey kick me in the gut and then give me that nice (read=BITCHY) mom shrug, little smile and then go right back to whatever she was doing prior to firing at me. I don't know how she does it but, she's fucking good at it. FOCUS: What about your parents? Do they know how to tear you down with the precision of a marksman? How did/do they? How did/do you react? After my Mom drops the bomb I normally just sit there speechless because one, I don't know what to say and two, even I have to respect my Mother. My Grandma said so. DAMMIT!