I've occasionally faked it, but only with one night stands where they're fingering me or giving me head where it's going poorly and it would just be less awkward if we got to the sexing. There have been many times, though, where I've accidentally faked it because guys have misinterpreted my normal sex-feels-good sounds for I'm-having-an-orgasm sounds and either stop or compliment themselves about it afterwards. I've corrected them a couple of times -especially if they've stopped but I think I could actually get there soon- but usually I just let it slide.
I am also a guy who has faked it, twice. Once while drunk and wearing a condom, when I just wanted to get it over with and fall asleep, and once during a really bad hand job. My odd tendency to produce large amounts of pre-cum, and naivete on her part, helped convince her. Never had a squirter, and seeing as I'm an old married geezer now, I can only dream. God Bless You Frylock for one of the best threads ever.
That's foreplay included but I'd say 75% of it is penetration, this guy can get off several times and keep going. In related news, I went to turn on my favorite vibrator yesterday and the little metal contact tab thingy inside broke off when I tried to turn it on.
I faked it once, the first time I got head. I felt guilty because she wasn't doing anything wrong, I could just tell it wasn't for me. That being said, I'm anti-faking it; it's dishonest, it reinforces bad habits, and it bolsters the idea that orgasms are the be-all end all of sex. A lot of women can enjoy sex without having an orgasm, and being so oriented with "didja finish? didja didja didja?" is pretty antithetical to the mindset needed for really good sex. If something doesn't feel good, why would you want a guy to think it does? Also, I bet you (plural) aren't nearly as good at faking it as you think you are, as it's a lot more than just moans. Realistically faking an orgasm is as difficult as realistic fake laughing or fake crying, and how many of you can pull that off?
Can any of you TiBettes give us poor TiBbers some insights about what to do to maximize the experience in bed? What's worked for you?
Well, apparently this was the top review on Amazon: So I guess it's not that "discrete." Personally, I've always liked my girl's sex toys like I like my functions: continuous.
As a 24 year old virgin, reading this thread literally pains me in multiple ways. That counts as multiples, right?
I am proud to say that I have never faked it. No offense, but faking an orgasm is just bad. Yeah, it might spare some hurt feelings, but lying about sex just is not cool. Being honest and open communication is extremely important. It leads to better sex sessions and orgasms. Ladies, if you don't feel like you are gonna orgasm anytime soon, help the guy out. He can't read your damn mind. Guide his hands, give him some direction, but don't just give up on him. It will help him out in his future too.
If she's gasping for breath and saying "Don't stop!", then for the love of god, DON'T STOP! I hate that! I can understand doing it once or twice to be a tease, but if it's more than that, I'm not gonna thank a guy for the build up, I'm more likely to kick him the fuck out of bed and finish the job myself. Also, someone sent me a rep with his favourite technique to induce squirts orally and he was absolutely right. Fast tongue flicks, with two fingers inside rubbing firmly on the front wall. G-spot + clit = HELL YES. An oral in general tip: Tongue pressure on the downstroke is just as important as pressure on the up stroke. Shocking how many of you don't know that.
Hey now, that's not true. That would be rather inconvenient if it was true. I like a little bit a foreplay, but fuck 20 minutes worth. I'm a kisser. I loooove to kiss. I love it when a guy kisses me silly and feels me up. After that, I will happily rip your clothes off. My neck is extremely sensitive. I honestly don't give a fuck if my nipples get played with or not. One suggestion guys, if you are thinking about doing something, and you aren't real sure if she is going to like it or not, feel it out first. Don't just fucking do it. A mood can get killed real fast that way. Also, I agree, teasing is not cool. Don't build up and then quit. That is just going to piss me off. Ya'll don't like blue balls, so why tease us? Another thing, don't fucking rub the clit raw either. Yes, we like to have it stimulated, but that doesn't mean that should be your main focus. Also, don't fucking stab your fingers into our pussy either. That shit will hurt. Try to have some kind of finesse about it. Keep your nails short too.
I think God made me wrong, when he gave me tits. I'm pretty sure I should have been born a man. I love porn. I hate foreplay. I am always wet. I hate toys. I love cum - even on me (face, tits, etc.). I have never faked an orgasm, and I never will. I hate touching after orgasm. Either a) we fuck again, or b) we sleep. Otherwise, stay on your side of the bed. My husband hates this about me, but I can't get past it. I enjoy the act of just fucking (read also: just getting fucked) and getting off isn't always my primary goal. If I want to cum and I know it isn't going to happen, I'll work some magic on myself and let him keep doing his thing. There is no great art to fucking, in my opinion. If you stay open minded and confident - and you do and try the things you're curious about, it will be good and you will both ultimately be happy.
Maybe that's why you've never squirted before? You strike me as a lady who likes fast, hard, vicious sex. And that's okay. But in my experience, and it seems a few other TiBettes are with me here, that's no way to make it happen. Everyone has different things that they like. I'm reading this thread and I'm nodding my head at certain things and cringing at others. There was another discussion on this board about which was better: one night stand or long term partner sex, and the long term partner sex won over all. It's because when you're with someone long enough, you communicate and learn what makes each other tick. So, bottom line, it really doesn't matter one iota what I like, or what you like, or TX, or mya, or devilsadvocate, because everyone's built different and everyone enjoys things differently. It is fun to talk about though.
I agree - I just think that some of you are scaring some of the men on this board with a required amount of foreplay time... or required amount of anything-time, for that matter. Like you said - we're all different. So, what you need to find is chemistry, not an instruction manual that outlines how and when to penetrate the girl you're about to bang. Which speaks to your point about the previous thread where a long-term sex partner won out over a one-night stand. I get that. I get that building trust is a good foundation for having the sex you love and "growing together." I have had extended foreplay sessions, and I understand the build-up, the desire, and the need that it creates - but it's still not for me. When I want to have sex, I want to get fucked. Quick or slow, hard or soft - I'd rather be fucking than pre-heating the oven between my legs. Maybe it does have something to do with me not being able to squirt, but the closest I ever came to squirting was with a boyfriend that shared my lack of interest in foreplay.