I'm late coming into this (yeah, I said that) but my only experience with a "squirter" was when I was fingering a friend who probably didn't think she was going to have a good night. We messed around, and by that I mean she gave me a hand job for long enough I don't think I could have gotten off that night regardless of what happened after. She was in an open relationship and had clearance to mess around with me for the night. I was single (for some reason I always am) and we had a good time. After she couldn't get me off, I have a hard time relaxing, I started fingering her. She didn't tell me beforehand but she made me stop just before she squirted. I followed directions and she told me she'd never "almost" squirted just from being fingered before. I'm not bragging, I know I'm not THAT good and I know this (though I also know I do some things pretty well). I do have a question, stemming from this experience. Those of you who do squirt; Do you only have that experience from some specific stimuli or can it change depending on circumstance. I'm sorry if this has been answered, I admit I have not read the entire thread.
I hear some women can get off with only vaginal, not clitoral, stimulation - and that when this happens, it's two very different experiences for the woman. Is this true?
That is completely true, and it can be the opposite too. I like vaginal orgasms better, but that is just my opinion. They tend to rock my world more.
This is not salacious, but please elaborate. How exactly is a vaginal orgasm better/worse than a clitoral orgasm? Does one rock your body while the other just sends a rush? I don't know how anyone can really describe orgasms, but I'm asking you to try.
If I sound like a babbling moron, I'm sorry, but I am going to try to elaborate. It is different for everyone, but this is how it is for me. Some people may like clitoral orgasms better. When I have a clitoral orgasm it is not as intense nor satisfying. Yes, it is completely pleasurable, but I can't help but wanting more. It takes the edge off, but it isn't a cure. When I have a vaginal orgasm, I have been known to see stars. They last longer. My body shakes more. I get a whole, hell of a lot wetter. It is almost more violent and passionate. They are the ones that make me go: "Wow, that was fucking amazing." They are the ones that make me crave sex. There are all different kinds of orgasms. Small, intense, long, etc. Guys, don't ya'll have different orgasms? Haven't you ever had an orgasm that almost made time stand still? You can't tell me that every single orgasm that you've had has felt the same.
They've ranged from "That rocks" to "That really rocks". I think I've had a couple where my toes curled. Maybe five. And I've been a big fan of orgasms since I was 12. I don't think guys have the same width of orgasm experience that girls do. I don't think we're built for it, genetically.
Okay, but either way it is a different orgasm. Do you have the same orgasm whether you are getting head or intercourse?
In a word? Yes. The only difference in orgasm I've noticed is what I'm thinking about at the time. If I'm focusing on my cock, I have the standard orgasm. If I concentrate on and sort of mentally direct it to my prostate, it's slightly more intense, but not really that much. The only guy I know of that has noticeably better orgasms is Sting, and that's through Tantra, which I don't need to buy in to to enjoy myself.
Okay, if that is the case... Then why do some guys like getting head better than intercourse? Vice versa of course too. Is it just the feeling of getting to the orgasm? So.... It wouldn't really matter who you had sex with then, if most of your orgasms felt the same? Edit: I forgot matter.
I added the word "Matter" because that's what I think you meant. And now you know why guys are considered callous assholes when it comes to sex. We certainly enjoy the emotional componant when it's there, but the physical componant is always pretty much the same, whether it's our girl or a random. And the reason some guys like head over vag is all mental. I guarantee the feeling at the end is the same.
Okay, if that is the case... Then why do some guys like getting head better than intercourse? [/quote][/quote][/quote] I'm a face guy (although I've been told that that's a cop out versus being an "ass" or "tits" man) so I like seeing the prettiest part of a girl near or around my cock*. And plus variability between girls' head giving techniques is greater than variability between their sex techniques, so it's interesting to "test drive" a new girl's blow job skills. It's always kind of exciting. How enthusiastic of a ball-licker is she? How quickly can she dart her tongue around? How deep down her throat can she go? Is she going to close her eyes or look at you seductively? The infinite possibilities are tantalizing. *And also, the romantic in me feels that it's much more intimate.
I don't agree with this at all. Not that there isn't a mental component, but it's definitely a distinctly different feeling, especially if the girl is any good and/or enthusiastic. In terms of orgasm, I don't think it changes based on getting head or having sex per se, but sometimes one or the other may be better and feel more intense. It's not 100% predictable though (i.e. I can't say "it's always more intense during sex").
Yeah, sorry, I fixed it. I feel like I just had an epiphany. So, that is why guys have no problem fucking fat chicks. Okay, on the emotional aspect, is the orgasm different then? So ,like I said the only thing that is different then is the amount/type/ way of pleasure leading up to that orgasm. Interesting, I am completely fascinated.
I can definitely have very underwhelming orgasms. And apparently I'm not alone: there's an entire (sub?) genre of porn dedicated to exactly that.
Whoah hold on the epiphany there cowgirl. Guys definitely have a problem fucking fat chicks; it's gross. Sometimes guys need a slump-buster, but it's definitely a last resort. If one was copping a beej from a fat girl in a vacuum, I guess theoretically it'd be okay. But if you have a reputation as a hog-slayer among your social circle, you're pretty much done with the prettier girls. And also, holding/touching fat girls just not pleasant, and there's a lot of steps in between meeting a girl and getting a blow job from her... usually.
Devil's, look at what he said. The process getting there can be quite different with head or vag, but the orgasm is the same.
Which is all true, but the orgasm from fat chicks, while maybe mentally repellant and maybe a touch less intense, is still the same basic orgasm you have when jerking off or fucking a hot chick you don't care about. The phrase "it's all the same in the dark" is literally true if you're only talking about the penis. I have, on the other hand, had more intense orgasms with girls I cared about and connected with.
If the question is one of feeling, then yes, I guess they are similar. They can be pretty wildly different in intensity, though. I mean, you can have the aforementioned underwhelming orgasm where it feels fine but isn't anything earth shattering. As they say, like pizza - when it's bad, it's still pretty good. On the other end of the spectrum, though, you can have the rocking, built-up, leave-you-gasping-for-breath-and-physically-drained orgasm. I guess I've had more of the latter from sex than from BJs. I don't know if Devil's orgasms are substantially different in feeling, or if they're just worlds apart in intensity.