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Spitters are Quitters

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Dcc001, Apr 23, 2012.

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Spit or Swallow?

  1. I'm a guy, and I like (or don't mind) when she spits

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  2. I'm a guy, and I like when she swallows

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  3. I'm a girl, and I prefer to swallow

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  4. I'm a girl, and I prefer to spit

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  5. EWWWWWW people do that!?

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  1. Parker

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    This right here, but even worse. When I started having sex, I about 3-4 long term relationships/FWBs that over the course of 3 years that just fucking spoiled the hell out of me. All of them either swallowed and were on BC so the semen flowed freely. I didn't use my first condom until the age of 22 and that same girl didn't swallow. I've gotten over the juvenile thing of "eww I don't want to touch it" but it is such a mood killer, it just ruins the flow of it. Also unless the girl is amazing with her hands, pulling her mouth off it to switch to hands just kills it anyway and she has to go back to it. I will always have water, and listerine at my apartment ready to go at all times.

    I never thought about what Justin and Nom said, but I have to agree. It is definitely a sign of something else. Funny enough this last girl I was dating who gave amazing head did not swallow at all which is good, because if she did, I'd be married to the crazy bitch. Then again she didn't put anything white and creamy in her mouth, mayo, miracle whip, blue cheese, alfredo sauce, cream cheese, ranch dressing anything, so I guess I couldn't hold it against her.
     
  2. gtg2k

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    I'm of the opinion that as long as my penis is happy, she can do whatever she pleases with my cum, short of impregnating herself.

    That said, do remember that whatever you eat ends up in your semen. I learned that one when my wife(girlfriend at the time) swallowed after I had enjoyed a bunch of seafood and beer. Seeing as how she's allergic to both, she proceeded to get violently ill the next day, and I've never been able to get her to swallow in the following 6 years. That said, I can understand why; plus, I wouldn't necessarily want to swallow a load either.
     
  3. whathasbeenseen

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    What about snowballing?
     
  4. JProctor

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    This is accurate in my experience. Not the romantic bonding aspect of it, but the enthusiasm and enjoyment aspect of it, which is closely tied to "complete acceptance." It doesn't matter if the woman swallows, but if not, we need to choose a destination for it to land other than her mouth unless she does some porn style drool thing.

    The one time I dealt with this was my own fault. I was with a girl who was overall pretty fun and okay with facials, but didn't like to swallow or take a load in her mouth. Despite her warning me, after a few months I let one go. She took it, but spit it out disgustedly. Her distaste (bad pun) was a turnoff for both of us, and it took a us while to get back on the same page.
     
  5. hooker

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    I'm always down to play with his cum if that's what turns his crank. I also don't mind taking a load in the face or anywhere else... although I do sort of hate when it gets in my hair. I like cum... I just don't swallow unless I'm told to.

    It surprises me that so many men say they prefer having their load swallowed. Once she's sucked it out of you, and you're convulsing from the badass blow-job, do you really care where it ends up?
     
  6. effinshenanigans

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    I'm inclined to agree with the, "Who gives a shit, she just blew me" crowd. As far as what's attractive or not afterwards, you don't really have to build a mood once the deed is done anyway. Spit while you take a dump, I don't care (just shut the door).

    As for those of you who don't get off on them, I'm curious how that is. Until a vagina grows a tongue, the mouth will always have the upper hand in terms of its sheer ability to provide differing sensations. Maybe you just need to find someone who does it really well.
     
  7. Dcc001

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    In my experience, men fall into two categories: those who are trying to cum while fucking, and those who are tryin not to cum while fucking.

    Guys who can easily get off from head are usually in the latter group. Guys who can't really - or only rarely - get off from head are the ones who have such control over their orgasm that they often have a tough time letting go and just cumming.

    It's like that oral sex debate amongst the ladies from way back - it just doesn't do it for some of us.
     
  8. effinshenanigans

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    See I'm the opposite. If I'm trying not to, I gain more control and have a problem letting go when it's finally time to. If I'm really trying, I can be in and out during a commercial break.
     
  9. Dcc001

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    I think it's more of a headspace thing than anyone else. I've noticed that guys who are athletes - big into sports, even after they've graduated school - tend to have an easier time cumming. I think probably because they're fairly tuned into their body and what it can do. Well, that, and presumably as teenaged athletes they were getting ass rather than honing their jerking off skills, so they tend to be more comfortable with another person getting them off (as opposed to their hand).

    Again, based on my limited personal experience.
     
  10. Rush-O-Matic

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    In my experience, girls that don't (won't) swallow don't want it in their mouth at all. Which translates to recoiling at exactly the wrong time. Swallowing generally guarantees the suckitation (technical term) continues long enough. I also like when there's a little dribble at the corner of her mouth, and she sorta grins like "whoopsie" and then licks it off her lip.
     
  11. Nom Chompsky

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    I think this is where I differ from most guys I've spoken to.

    Unless you're going to give me head eagerly and enthusiastically, I'd rather if you didn't even bother. There's a better use of both of our time if you don't really like it. I pretty much can't even come close to getting off unless I know somebody likes giving head, so really it just becomes an exercise in futility.

    Also, I don't consider my coming to necessarily be the end of sex, so the mood created afterwards matters very much to me. But I've come to grips with the fact that I have somewhat weird sexual tastes, and I dig chicks who are just willing to go with it. Swallow it, spit it in my face, shoot it on my stomach and lick it off, ask me to lick it off your tits, whatever -- just get into it, you know?
     
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    You hear that effinshenanigans? You better bring your A game or no game with Nom.
     
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    The one spitter I hooked up with post college told me she absolutely hated giving head and just merely put up with it. Yet she was a savant and would get pretty into it, it was strange.

    While I don't vibe with Nom being willing to lick it off her tits, I can totally get down with the sentiment. Nothing worse than a lack of interest or enthusiasm in any of the bedroom arts.
     
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    I don't think it could have been written any better. Adam Carolla always talks about this situation saying it doesn't matter which a girl does as long as they transport it after they've finished the Beej. Having a girl stop the movement, and even worse simply taking it out of her mouth, right as you climax can, forgive the pun, blow the whole thing. Finish the job through the duration. Do what ever you want with it after.
     
  15. effinshenanigans

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    Here's a bit of an addendum.

    I was with a girl for over three years who really didn't like giving head and in those rare moments when she did, it showed. I'd get off, but it was kind of a labored event. So I simply never asked her for it or expected it. It wasn't her thing. It didn't matter that I went down on her like she dispensed beer, we did other things and I was satisfied with our sex life. Not blown away, but satisfied. So I agree with your sentiments regarding the unenthused dick manipulators.

    However, if she's into it and it's going well, then spit, swallow, whatever--we're having fun.

    As for the cum-play adventures you're down for, more power to you, buddy. A girl once hopped off at the wrong moment to switch positions last second and I blasted in my own face. It didn't feel sexy or exciting--it felt like I came in my face and I was tasting it.

    It didn't taste anything like what I ate. I don't remember eating cum.
     
  16. dixiebandit69

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    THIS. A THOUSAND TIMES, THIS.

    One time I was with a girl who was stopping about every 30 seconds to look up at me. I finally got so annoyed that I asked her what the deal was, and she said:

    "I don't want you to cum in my mouth."

    Needless to say, I didn't cum that night.
     
  17. Rob4Broncos

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    While the description is kind of excessive, I think the idea is spot-on. Obviously, what a girl does after a blowjob has no bearing on the blowjob itself, but that's sort of the point: when a girl swallows afterwards (even though she doesn't have to), it's indicative of how much she's into it and, by extension, me. There's no melding of souls or any such nonsense, but it makes the entire act much more intimate. I'll admit, when a girl swallows, there's a feeling of additional acceptance on my part. It's like a subtle promotion from "blowjob-worthy" to "swallow-worthy." Don't judge me.

    Swallowing doesn't necessarily make or break a blowjob, but in my experience the act is indicative of how good the rest of the blowjob was. Since the best blowjobs are usually the most enthusiastic, that same excitement and willingness will usually carry over during and after ejaculation. If she's shy and timid for the duration of it, chances are she'll be equally squeamish when I'm cumming. If, however, she and I are more in tune with each other during the act, there's a strong likelihood that her enthusiasm will match mine during my orgasm. Just like in school, it's usually the best students who do the extra credit.

    Besides, spitting after oral sex (regardless of who's giving/receiving) is almost like spitting after kissing: "Here, I accept you, but I don't accept you that much."
     
  18. Roxanne

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    It's a job. You have to finish it. Swallowing is the logical endgame to having your mouth on someone's dick for twenty minutes.

    As I have said for years as a semen-swallowing advocate, I would much rather have it just shoot right down my throat than hold it in my mouth while I try to find a better receptacle than my stomach. Like wine, semen has a bunch of flavors that open up on your tongue if you hold it there for too long. But this isn't a fine Burgundy, it's Carlo Rossi, and like cheap wine, you chug that shit and get back to the business of boning.
     
  19. dixiebandit69

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    Pfft. Fuck swallowing. I'm not satisfied until she cooks it up in a spoon and shoots it into her veins.

    EDIT: Or if she pulls an Annette Schwarz and snorts it. That's true love right there.
     
  20. Renholder

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    Only reason I prefer girls to swallow. Half the time I'm not even done cumming when the girl stops and runs to the garbage can.

    I wouldn't even care if she just let it run out of her mouth onto me. Just keep your head down there until I stop squirming around.


    20 minutes?! Either there is way too much foreplay going on or someone needs a few lessons.