It's been awhile since we had one of these discussions. Guys: Do you prefer her to spit/swallow/don't care I'm getting head? Girls: Do you prefer to spit/swallow/don't you dare fucking cum in my mouth? Probably this needs a poll of some kind. Also, I was reading an article that sung the praises of swallowing. One of its points was that, in Western culture, "swallowing signals acceptance, blessing, and complete transformation." It went on to say: Imagine spitting out champagne after a toast or spitting out the wafer during communion. The insult and sacrilege would be overwhelming. In the same way, spitting out cum is a symbolic rejection to many men. By swallowing, a woman indicates complete acceptance. She wishes to consume, to commune with whatever comes from her lover. As she imbibes the cum, it becomes part of her, he becomes part of her. They are joined together in an intimate sacred bond like no other. My first reaction is that this is way over-thinking and over-romanticizing blowjobs. Then I wondered, if underneath it all, there is some measure of truth to it? Is the author just being touchy-feely, or do some men/women agree/disagree?