I don't know if this thread will have legs, but the talk is inspired from the "Make love, not porn" thread. Evidently, there are a multitude of women who are deeply self-conscious of how their genitals look. Kind of a broad focus, but I wouldn't mind the thread kind of drifting towards body image. Anyone reading this who sleeps with women: does it matter to any degree what the girl looks like? Not shaved vs. unshaven, but the actual aesthetic? And how much or how little does your self image inhibit or enhance your sex life? Are you more comfortable with lights off, or do you like as much exposure as you can get? Focus: General self-image as it related to sex, I guess.