You're all a bunch of sexual active, attractive people, I'm sure you've picked up a litany of tricks and moves that I can steal and pretend I made up. That way, next time I have sex, it'll be like she's fucking an entire group of internet strangers, which, if you'd ever met the girls I sleep with, is a huge possibility anyway. I don't think this thread has to be too narrow, but we should probably steer away from a bunch of bickering about shit that doesn't really matter. Every piece of advice would obviously be based on the poster's own experience, and you have to determine whether it's worth following or not: we don't need a bunch of "well, I actually hate having my balls played with, so there!". Unless something is egregiously wrong, like using hot sauce as lubricant or fucking Hot, Saucy, Lutherans. Where was I? Oh right. Focus:Give us them sexy tips. I'll start with one of my own: Most dirty talk sounds silly or obvious to me, but the idea of communicating and murmuring into somebody's ear is hot. So I tend during foreplay, to try to continue an otherwise innocuous conversation while my hands and mouth roam -- this has the added benefit of correlating a mundane topic with sexytimes. It's great fun to go to a dinner party and watch all the guests wondering why your partner blushes any time anybody discusses the debt ceiling.* *Note that this is more awkward if you have been recently fucking Ben Bernake.