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Sex in long-term relationships

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by toddamus, Dec 1, 2013.

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What's your take on long-term relationship sex?

  1. Men want too much sex over time.

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  2. Women withhold sex for manipulation.

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  3. Both genders need some help.

    52 vote(s)
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  4. Monogamy is unnatural.

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  5. I'm just here to fuck whoever is running this place these days.

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    4.7%
  1. toddamus

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    I find it funny when women talk about ways to seduce a man, like there's some secret to it.

    Step 1: get naked.
    Success.

    Unfortunately if I tried that on someone I was dating it might turn out different.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    You have no idea what you're talking about.

    If I had a dollar for every time I started initiating sex and some man turned me down, I would be able to purchase all the sex I want.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    I still refuse to believe this happens and quite frankly I think you're up to Revengeofthenerds style lying and shenanigans.
     
  4. happyfunball

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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    I've never done this before, but:

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  5. toddamus

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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Apparently you're dating asexual men. Stop hooking up with the Durbanites of the world and your results will be different.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Or men so insecure and demasculated they just want to skip to cuddling and throw on Eat Pray Love.
     
  7. toddamus

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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    I can honestly say, never has a girl I've been interested in, walked around naked (and wanted to hook up with me), and I've passed it up.

    Who knows, maybe I'm just that awesome.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    My ex-best friend did really well with women but constantly turned down sex with them. He had a Slingblade attitude towards women.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    No. That's called "normal" and that's how the reality-based act so they don't end up getting profiled as serial killers.
     
  10. toddamus

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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread


    Apparently according to the women on here, thats not normal, that just extraordinary.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Sure those guys weren't just completely oblivious to what you were trying to do? I've never had a girl initiate sex with me, ever, even when dating. If I didn't make all the effort to get things started my ex and I would have never had sex. But if we ever missed more than a day without going at it "WHY DON'T WE HAVE SEX ANYMORE" and "DO YOU NOT THINK I'M PRETTY?" Wait, maybe her trying to start fights was her initiating sex because she knew we'd just end up having make-up sex. Incepting someone else into initiating sex seems like an awful lot of trouble though.

    I wouldn't even turn down a woman who I thought was completely unattractive if she approached me and was like "wanna bang?" I mean, I'd be wary that she'd be taking me somewhere to get mugged or steal my kidneys, but I'd still do it.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    This just makes me want to cry.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Yeah I'd like to hear these overt attempts at initiating sex which men either missed or turned down. It strains credulity.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    We have our own bathroom in our room, so once the door is closed, I walk around naked pretty much 100% of the time. Or at least topless. I've crawled on top of him also. But you know, he has to get up early...or something.

    Wait, you're not just trying to get me to talk dirty are you? I see where this is going.

    I don't know if I stated this before, but he is fine with once a week, I want more. So my week is usually spent trying to change his mind with differing amounts of success.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Slip a viagra into his coffee and see what happens. Hopefully he doesn't make it to work before it kicks in, but if it kicks in before he leaves you'll be happy.

    Or give him some special deodorant, maybe he has low t as well. But beware, the deodorant may cause his balls to shrink so if you like those you may not want to do that.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Step 1: get him to drink coffee
    Step 2: success!

    I had this conversation with him last week.
    Me: If you have sex with me tonight, I won't nag you about it tomorrow.
    Him: I want to, but I'm really tired.

    And he didn't!

    I'm curious as to the married guys on here in their mid-late thirties. How often are you guys doing it? Am I being too hard on my husband (I wish). Except for Noland. He's not allowed to answer.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    Just turned 30, 3-5 times a week depending on the wife's work/school schedule. Perks of having a young wife I guess.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    You're still young yourself though.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    As a single 22 year old, this is depressing as all hell.
     
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    Re: 11/22 Drunk Thread

    I too find this kind of amazing. Granted, I'm 33 and work a million hours a week these days so I totally understand being tired and not wanting to have sex at any given moment. But a hot naked chick coming on strong will almost always do the trick to overcome that. The moreso if it's a new experience/woman (which adds a certain extra oomph to sex).