I like how in chick flicks, if a character is having trouble with her relationship and is considering breaking it up, her quirky friend is always like "Just write a pros and cons list, and whichever one is longer is your answer!" as if that would actually be a great way to make the decision. But around this time of year, I've found people start doing this for themselves, either because they're thinking about their relationship or wondering/being asked why they're single. For a Valentine's Day thread: Focus: What are the pros that you bring to a relationship? What are the cons?