Yesterday I read this really good article on Good about James Deen and his appeal to women. Today, Jezebel picked it up and the discussions in the comments - both elaborating on James Deen and discussing women's relationship to porn in general- were interesting to read. Maybe it's lame, but I like when porn is discussed on a level more elevated than "Yay, tits!" But that doesn't have to be the whole point of the thread. I thought it was timely since just recently someone had asked the TiBettes what was so great about Deen, but it could also be a good starting point for more general topics. Maybe a mod can help out with the focus, because these aren't quite right but... Focus: Who are your favorite porn stars, and what draws you to them? Alt-focus: ...porn. Thoughts? How often do you watch, and what kinds? How is it successful these days and where is it falling short? TiBettes, do you watch porn made specifically for women, or does that not do it for you? (I posted this from my iPod, so if I messed up the URL stuff, I'm sorry.)
The TiBettes have ganged up on me to force me to run this thread. Is James Deen related to Paula Deen? EDIT: I have never heard of this guy before, but then again I have never Googled "Young Tom Hanks lookalike fucking busty grandmas."
My favorite porn star is, I'm sure much to everyone's surprise, is Eva Angelina. What's not to like, great curves, dark hair, dirty librarian look, fucks like the worlds dirtiest bunny on a coke bender, this woman is damn near perfect. [rnsfw]http://fapdu.com/eva-angelina-anal-creampie-1[/rnsfw]
Focus: James Deen tops my list. He epitomizes what I find attractive in a man physically (those eyes...that hair...that nose...his cute little ass...) and his style of sex is hot as shit. He always whispers in the ear of whomever he's fucking, you can really and truly tell that he loves eating pussy, and there's just this look of utter lust in his eyes while he's doing a scene. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I genuinely believe he loves women, and that's a massive turn-on for me. Also on my list: Manuel Ferrara. He'll often cradle the face of whomever he's fucking (unprompted!) and initiate eye contact. His sexytalk is cute, too. Also: huge cock. Absolutely adorable! Let me browse through my favorite JD clips and I'll be back with goodies, promise.
Focus: My favorite porn star is Maria Ozawa. I have a terrible biracial (Asian specifically) fetish that could be grounds for an immediate restraining order. I'm also a boob guy. She's got a great rack. Generally, an Asian woman isn't stacked like your standard white or black woman. If a one of these walking double rainbows crossed my path and showed genuine interest in me, I'm 50/50 on either slavish devotion or chaining her to a toilet.* Alt-focus: To me, porn is just one of those things in life that you might need some day, like a hammer or flashlight. I generally watch just straight hardcore stuff, with a slant towards the girl cumming. I think it's unbelievably hot to see a girl having a stroke while she's getting railed by what appears to be a skin colored baseball bat. If I have any issues with porn is that it messes me up when I'm with a girl. When I first got with MissJames it took me a while before I could orgasm with her because I was so used to beating it. It felt too different and it threw me off. Even now I generally abstain from jerking it because I don't want to last until we're both rubbed raw. I just watch and let it rev the engine, as it were. *
I'm a little bit bored of all the James Deen hagiography. Partially because I have been imbued with near-supernatural levels of hateration, partially because reading anything he writes makes me wants to see how deep my thumbs will fit into my eyesockets, and partially because I think he's just slightly overrated. Don't get me wrong, he's damn good at what he does, he just strikes me as a little...overhip, I guess. Ryan Gosling is a pretty good comparison. Anyway, blatant jealousy aside, most mainstream porn sucks. Most of the stuff you all post in the porn thread is terrible to me, and my opinion about slippery body parts is more objective and valid than yours. I really don't get any thrill from watching a skinny pneumatic blonde shrilly fake orgasms while contorted into the most camera-friendly positions.
So what do you like? Thats what this thread is for. Focus: I happen to like stuff I can personally relate to. Real people having normal sex. Stuff, like this, ya know? [rnsfw][/rnsfw]
I tend to agree. Unless it's a snippet on some IFC or HBO documentary, I can honestly say I've never seen a professionally produced pornographic movie. As soon as I click a URL and see that the camera is not simply mounted on a shelf in the room, or if I detect production, I'm gone. Seeing people fake it does nothing for me.
Valid question. I've been trying to figure out how to describe it for a little bit now. Tension is sexy. I like porn where there's an interplay between the participants. Where there's something more than a paycheck at stake. Where there's passion -- drama -- even subtlety in the reactions, rather than just the relentless spectre of the male gaze. That can come from a lot of places. Fetish porn is usually a nifty shorthand. It's a lot easier for me to buy that the actress(es)/actor(s) are enjoying themselves, if they're engaging in the sort of play that people build lifestyles around. A good company, of course, is paramount here: there's nothing worse than shifty fetish companies, but I've come to implicitly trust the product out of a company like Kink.com. True, the participants rarely say anything openly negative, but they do the interview/aftercare/discussion of boundaries thing about as well as anybody doing it. It doesn't hurt that they specialize in the sorts of intense sensations that yield genuine reaction. Bondage, if you'll pardon the pun, is a good way to induce tension. Other than that, (real) amateur porn often features a greater investment from the participants. Of course, this often comes at the expense of lighting/blocking/etc., so it's difficult to find videos that satisfy my intellectual AND aesthetic standards. There's also always the written word -- there's some legitimately good written erotica out there, which neatly circumvents the issues with both mainstream and amateur porn. There's also audio porn, old conversations, etc. I have some admittedly somewhat unique standards for porn, so it's a...process for me to find things that I think are worthwhile. Add to that the ethical issues with a lot of porn, and it's not so simple as just popping to youporn. Not sure if that answered your question, but I have many thoughts about this issue.
So Nom can give a dissertation on purses, but has nothing but hate to spew on the subject of porn? My favorite actress right now is April O'Neil. Holy fuck. I have no frame of reference on whether she's faking or not, but it gets me off. Also, spanking porn. It's unfortunate that I have yet to find a clip that includes all of the following: A fairly attractive woman, some actual spanking, and sex. Of course, I'm sure any such porn is owned by a magical genie who rides a glowing unicorn.
Right now, I'm big into Hayden Winters. Mixture of girl next door / perfect tits thing that really does it for me. And she looks like a girl I used to fuck in college, which is a plus.
You must not be looking very hard. Here, let me help you: <a class="postlink" href="http://morethanithurtsme.tumblr.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://morethanithurtsme.tumblr.com/</a> And it's full of links to other blogs/Tumblrs, so you should have no problem finding something that appeals to you eventually. It's been taken down, but the Little Miss Spankypants Tumblr was awesome. You can probably still find some videos/images if you look around.
I've been unfulfilled by the usual porn aggregate sites lately and have been looking for something that's more than the equivalent of mentally fucking a jar of peanut butter. It's not that I don't get off from run of the mill porn, but as sad as this sounds, I like taking my time to enjoy jerking off. I don't light candles and put on sexy music, but I enjoy the sensations and the mental pictures and I just don't get that from seeing some big fake titted girl with her legs contorted in some weird pose, yelling how she's a dirty slut office worker. If I'm jerking off I'm usually doing it because having sex isn't in the cards for some reason and I want to have the same stimulation, just with myself. I agree with almost everything Nom said in his post. I want to be stimulated by more than just my hand on my cock. I wish there was a better way to incorporate the storytelling of a movie and the extended sex scenes than the current crop of porn movies. I know it's a long running joke how porn movies always include some ridiculous plot focusing on amazon alien sex magicians coming to earth and enslaving all the cocks they can find, but I'm surprised I haven't seen a better crop of full on porn movies that build upon the regular constructs of a good story. Conflict, attraction, passion, etc. I want my porn to mimic real life as much as possible. I've never had a favorite porn star. There are certain body types and looks I'm attracted to, but I can't honestly say I've followed the body of work of a certain individual.
Hm. I know some of you believe that I must have a porn collection, but I don't. I have a fucking library of photos I find sexy, from nudes to bondage to penetration. Not one movie, tape, whatever. Porn movies do very little for me (unless I am in it. That's a different ballgame.). My imagination is FAR better than anything two strangers fucking on film can create.
I love the new age of porn. The gonzo style is the shizzz. Honestly the old movie style format with 8-12 minute scenes just wasn't going to cut it forever. Now you can get a hot ass bitch fucked in every position these days that will be a solid 25 minutes of fucking. Even when it's canned and produced you can still tell if the girl and guy are into each other and if the girl is really digging it. With girls like Gianna if she isn't into it there is a huge difference. Some trends I don't care for, the throat gagging shit, I love a hot deep throat, repeatedly activating the girl's gag reflex and wondering if the bitch is about to throw up is not fucking sexy. Not a new move but I hate what I call, the dagger stab move, where they'll be pumping away nicely and the dude stops and takes dick all the way out, thrust it all the way in, pulls it all the way out (repeat as (un)needed), maybe slapping the clit with his tip. It's fucking lame and kills the good flow theyve been working towards. Honestly I don't branch out or try and find new stars very often. I also use girls that physically resemble the girls I've fucked, makes it easier for my brain to connect the gaps. As for porn stars I'd still say a good portion of my material is Jenna Jameson's prime stuff. I do have a dozen or so other girls but she still gets the most playing time. Besides Gianna I've mentioned Jenna Haze and Lily Thai here a bit.
This is not the best of clips, but I have a thing for James Deen grinning, groaning, and dirty talking. This hits my trifecta of hawtness. OBVIOUS PORN LINK AHEAD: <a class="postlink" href="http://donttellmyboyfriend.tumblr.com/post/7530794520/james-deen-and-jesse-jane-the-masseuse-2" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://donttellmyboyfriend.tumblr.com/p ... masseuse-2</a>
Seconded for Eva. I'm crazy about a girl who looks somewhat like Sasha Grey; but with a cleaner mouth. This has been my go to months. I've never eaten an ass, but I'd eat hers. http://www.tube8.com/teen/sasha/115643/ As far as dudes in the porn? I had no idea who James Deen was. I thought she was misspelling Dean. I think Turtle from Entourage said it best. Something along the lines of, "Oh man, don't you just hate it when you're beating off and right when your about to cum the shot switches to the dude and you just want to kill yourself?"
I'm quite the porn fan. I don't tend to be particularly interested in specific actors or actresses, though I like most of Jenna Haze's stuff. I am however a huge, huge fan of the kink.com productions. Specifically The Upper Floor, Sex and Submission, but bits and pieces of all their shoots do it for me. They're the only porn sites I even consider paying for. Really good kink porn where people fuck as well as do kinky shit was impossible to find before Kink started releasing - and their product remains some of the best quality stuff around.
Im not the only one that doesn't dig anal right? Shit doesn't do it for me as far as hotness in porn. Im pretty vanilla, don't like rough porn. As long as the girl seems to be having a good time Im cool, don't need all the slapping and spitting*. *I sound like Adam Carolla I know.
I'm with you, mainly cause I don't love the ridiculous angles and unnecessary gaping ass shots. FOCUS: Like Winterbike, I'm into alot of FFM stuff, mainly cause its something I don't really get in my daily life, so its nice to have that fantasy aspect. Plus, you can't really go wrong with two sets of tits. That being said, while I love the girls into each other during it, lesbian porn doesn't do a ton for me. I've always been a pretty big Jayden James fan. She looks alot like the girl I was obsessed with most of HS (shocking I know) NSFW Lizz Tayler is one of my newer favorites too. Despite that incredible lame signature tattoo she has. NSFW Shout out to Rachel Starr too, cause I mean, that ass... NSFW