In addition to traditions the holidays are a time of seeing relatives that we don't see very often. Some are closely related to us, and others are not. Some are people we would hang out with if we weren't related...and some are not. FOCUS: Tell us about your annoying or strange relatives. Were you close as kids, but grew apart as your interest in fine wines diverged from their interests in sucking back maximal quantities of malt liquor? Did your suddenly realize that there was a reason Mom and Dad didn't let you and the other kids alone in a room with Uncle Fred when you were younger?