TiBber bewildered is asking for help picking out wedding music for a Shaft-themed wedding, so let's help her out in that thread. However, many other TiBbers will face similar dilemmas for their weddings, and will likely need advice. All of us have certainly attended many weddings, even if they were not necessarily our own. FOCUS: What was the best wedding you've ever been to? What was the worst? What elements make a wedding great, and what elements can you not stand? CLARIFICATION: To clarify, we are talking about the whole wedding experience - including the rehearsal dinner, the ceremony, the reception, etc.