So Ive never really watched How I Met Your Mother and was intrigued by the discussion that came up in the WDT. So I guess it is just a humorous take on the go to move used to seal the deal with a date. Finding the right moment and appearing totally nude. Real life can be just as off the wall on the subject of hooking up and the dynamic between people in this situation. I listen to Loveline regularly and Dr Drew's cohost, Psycho Mike's, go to move when he was a single horny 20 something was to simply whip out his dick and start masturbating in front of a girl he wanted to hook up with. He claims that as you'd imagine some girls didn't dig it but it actually worked enough times for him not to stop. Focus: Did/do you have a go to move to signal your willingness to bang it out? Any good stories of it failing miserably? I really want to her the girl's here take on this. I think the "fuck me" eyes is the biggest tell but this still relies on guys to understand ambiguous or indirect social cues. My personal go to move in the past when I was near retarded with girls was at the right moment of making out to move the girl's hand on to my crotch. See if she reciprocated at all. Most of the time this was well past many cues that the deed would be done. Twice that I can remember, being near black out drunk myself, I pulled it on girls that I thought I was vibing really really well with but hadn't made it to making out. One stopped me and said not to ruin what was an already fun night (this was in the back of a cab on the ride home, just dropped her off), the other gave me a cross eyed "what are you thinking" look and left me on the couch in the middle of a party. I blame this all on my high school's abstinence only sex ed curriculum. Alt focus: What are some signals you've come across from other people? Anything off the wall?