If I can't have you....fuck that you're MINE. I think jealousy is quite possibly the weakest and most insecure emotional trait at a human being's disposal. I'm talking strictly about relationship jealousy here. I get a vivid dose of it practically every day at work. Next to my plant is a small call centre that's attached to the city immigration offices. In this call centre works this attractive girl I see who works at the call centre. Of course, I have never seen here alone because her boyfriend is ALWAYS around her, and not in a normal way. I'll explain: He walks her in the morning RIGHT up to the security door where she enters. After she does, he usually put his hands to his face and leers in through the door window afterwards. If I'm eating lunch outside on our picnic table, like clockwork he his there at the crack of noon at the security door. If she holds him up, he pounds on the door (this is where she works don't forget). Their property has picnic tables too, but he makes her eat alone with him while all her other co-workers sit together to eat and chit-chat. Since they share the same hours, usually I'm coming out and THERE HE IS AGAIN, grabbing her by the arm as soon as she leaves, if he catches her talking to a male co-worker he'll actually pull her away from them. He also shows on coffee breaks often, leading to the conclusion that this clown is an Xbox-playing deadbeat who has it completely his way. Sometimes I'll drive by them and see him pointing right in her face, giving her what for. I've never actually heard him speak a word but I don't need evidence: he's a completely insecure jealous prick and the two co-workers I get along with agree wholeheartedly. After three years of seeing this over and over, the evidence has piled up. I am so glad I haven't had to deal with this sort of shit since the 90's. I have a mutual trust relationship for over a decade where you can talk to members of the opposite sex and not have to worry about your other half screaming in your face like a pissed-off drill instructor with rabies. Focus: Relationship jealousy. Experiences, thoughts, stories. Are you the jealous type or do you find it to be a huge insecurity?