This question has been asked to millions of men and women, and millions of men and women lie about it. It's so funny because it is such a massive double edged sword men lie up, women lie down. Isn't there an old rule of thumb that when you ask your serious girlfriend how many partners she had that you add seven to it? Subsequently when a serious girlfriend asks you aren't you supposed to say twelve? for the more conservative men "seven". I have an article here saying only 29% of men and 9% of women have had 15 or more partners in their lifetime, the average being a solid "7" <a class="postlink" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19374216/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19374216/</a> My buddies and I must be way above average then. The reason I'm even writing this is because we were thinking of girls (attractive women who are married with kids now) who we absolutely knew had more than twenty partners. C'mon even Jerry Seinfeld was with more than seven....right? We assumed he slept with all of those girls except the Virgin. FOCUS: If you are brave enough go ahead and print your number. Also tell story's about having to divulge your number or maybe you were horrified when you found out your partners. Also throw out the unofficial rules to this subject, I'm pretty sure this is one. Prostitutes/Escorts do not count in a man's final tally, if a women pays for a male escort however THAT does count. Likewise a man should never admit to his future wife engaging in such activities...never.....not even Asian massage parlors. Please do not use this as a format to brag and sound like Tucker, I'm more interested in producing a realistic figure and hearing some funny stories. **** Shegirl told me in private that her number is 177 9but that does not include foreigners nor dwarves) so girls do not be afraid to come clean.
You have to be more specific. Are we talking full out penetration? I've been with 16 men and 3 girls, so am I at 16, or 19?
Perfect timing. A friend of mine posted this on Facebook just 15 minutes ago: "I just had an argument with a girl I know. She was saying how it's unfair that if a guy fucks a different girl every week, he's a legend, but if a girl fucks just two guys in a year, she's a slut. So in response I told her that if a key opens lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a shitty lock. That shut her up." Focus: 3. Or 4, if we count blowjobs. When I dated my first girlfriend at 15, we were both virgins. But she could give one hell of a blowjob. Yeah, it's low. Whatever. I didn't have sex until 18, so I'm making up for lost time.
Full on peen in vag, yes. Or to be fair, whatever you do that would equal that if you swing both ways, or the other.
I'm at seven, after four years of sexual activity. It's just a number, really, and I don't have a strong opinion either way. But I'm about to graduate from college, and I'd be lying if I said I'm not looking back and wishing I had done more boinking over the last four years. I guess it's sort of nice to know that as long as I get married eventually, I'm practically guaranteed to be above average.
He wrote the show. He also got laid in nearly every episode. Co-incidence? FOCUS: I sit comfortably on 11, at age 24. One of them was a stripper, which I paid a reasonable (read: way too fucking much) amount for, so depending on what "rules" you follow my final tally might be 10. Strangely enough, I've only ever had one instance where I've discussed previous partners in a serious relationship. We were watching Clerks and got to the point where it's revealed that Dante's girlfriend had sucked 37 dicks. I gave her a shit-eating grin and asked her how many dicks she'd sucked, to which she replied only one. That would certainly explain why she wasn't any fuckin' good at it. My fianceé and I have never really openly discussed this, and have only progressed to the point that we don't really want to know. I mean, yeah I do want to know, but I think in the end it's only going to hurt the relationship, and she feels the same way. I'm comfortable with knowing she's had sex with other men in the past, and vice-versa. ALT-FOCUS: As for rules, if you hear a guy give excuses as to why his number is so low, or tell you that "he never tries", then whatever number he gives you is bullshit and you should multiply it by zero to get the real amount.
15 (and I'm 23, so I have some time left) A while back I was dating this girl who had this whole idea of purity, that she only wanted to have sex with 5 guys in her life (with the 5th one being her husband). No joke, she thought this out. However she would only consider guys who had sex with 10 girls to be her husband. She told me this early in our relationship, and never asked my number. When the end was near, and I was pretty sure I wanted to end it I let her know my number. She flipped, screamed at me about it, then promptly went back on her word and wanted to be back with me because she saw a future or something... Fast forward a year or so, she has now had sex with about 5 more guys, friends of mine and randoms as well. I've thought about bringing it up with her, showing her how she broke her moral code, but it is just not worth it.
10, started at 14, and I am now 21. I tend to go through awful dry spells and then make up for lost time. When it rain it pours right? Of the ten I was with each at least 3 times sometimes over a year in between. So I guess I've never had a "one night stand" because I end up banging them again. Sadly the only two girls I've ever seriously dated with I hooked up with the first time I met them. Boy I sure can pick em'!
Three, including my devout Catholic wife, though it should be noted that we started dating in high school.
Five that I remember. Possibly another three that I never will. With those three, they were always after crazy parties that lasted into the wee hours of the morning and ended with me blacking out. All three times I woke up naked with a girl of similar dress and no memory. Two times there was a condom, which only proves that it was brought out and possibly put on, but no evidence that it ever went in (One thing is for sure, though: if it did go in, I was way too trashed to cum and we eventually gave up). The third one was bareback and really stupid (regardless of the fact that I was probably too trashed to cum that time, too). She said we did, I had no idea. Luckily, no negative consequences arose from that.
I've been with 9 women, and I'm 34. Only 1 was a 1 night stand, and that pretty much because I was on vacation and we hooked up on my last night in town. I've had something of a relationship with all of the others, whether it be a couple of months only, or a few years. I'm married now....my only regret is that I never fucked an asian woman, so since I'm not a cheater I kind of missed the boat.
You know, people always say how girls are looked down on as sluts, yet guys are praised as legends. But this is only half the truth, this is how guys view each party. Girls view other girls who sleep with a lot of guys as sluts as well, but they also view guys who have a high number as man-sluts. I personally don't even care. Ya if a girl is a huge slut with a roast beef sandwich between her thighs then I'll run for the hills. But if she's got a strong sexual appetite and gets with a reasonable amount of guys, I don't care. If I was able to, I'd have probably slept with a lot more girls than I have, so why should I look down on girls who've accomplished this? I'm not a huge fan of hypocrisy, so I've steered clear from this train of thought. I've got a decent number for my age (15, I'm 22) and it's brought trouble onto me for with multiple girls, my current girlfriend and the girl I was involved with right before her stand out the most. Both of them were fairly inexperienced (found out afterward that I was my girlfriend's first actually). Even though they were completely different minded (main difference is that the first girl was a psycho hose-beast) they both had the same thought process about it. They knew about my past and were worried that they would not only become another number to me, but that I'd be comparing to my previous encounters. It may not be as widespread as it is for girls, but there are definitely downsides for guys who sleep with a lot of girls.
Since I turned 30 and started to realize and think about what I was doing: 5 (All in a long term relationship.) Before that? I have no idea. Lets just say a lot X 5. You have no idea how many women throw themselves vag first at the band until you experience it first hand.
OK, I need some rule clarification. Obviously, P in V sex counts. But what about: 1. Peen in ass? 2. Tongue in ass? This can be hetero or homo, but does it count? 3. Tongue in vag (homo only)? 4. Strap-on in vag (homo only)? 5. Strap-on in ass (homo only)? 6. Fingers/fist in vag? This can be hetero or homo. 7. Finger/fist in ass? Ditto to above. 8. Inanimate object inserted into ass? Ditto to above. 9. Inanimate object inserted into vag? Ditto to above. 10. Group sex involving all partners. What counts and what doesn't? If I'm going down on her and getting fucked from behind by him, do both count? They should, right? 11. Group sex not involving all partners. What is someone is just watching, but ends up jerking off on your person? Clearly, he was a participant but not exactly active until the end. Focus: None of this actually matters. I don't know my actual number. I can give a range, though--somewhere between mid thirties and upper sixties. I may be able to give a closer estimate depending on SheGirl's rulings in the above situations. EDIT: And what about all of those times in high school when I played the "Just the Tip, Only for a Second" game? How much has to be inserted and for how long in order to count?
Don't forget those instances where the guy is jacking off on a lawnmower and there's an orange spray-painted sheep braying in the corner and you're jumping around on a pogo stick with a rake hanging out of your ass. That's gotta count for something.
11, and I'm 27. I've had a few long term relationships, so 7 or 8 of the 11 have come in rapid succession. And a couple of them were cougars. Mmmm, cougars.