Since I've started kinda seeing the new little girl, I have been witnessing certain small things that completely reinforce a long held belief of mine- girls are effing mean to each other. And its the ones who claim to be "the very best of friends!" that are the absolute worst, I've noticed. A couple of small examples: - A girl who I used to kinda see a while back is good friends with the new girl, and when we saw her the other night at the bar, she ran up and gave the new girl a giant bear hug while confessing her undying love for her and telling her how cute we look together- you know, standard girl stuff. Not 5 minutes later, she is trying to cozy up next to me to tell me bad things about the new girl while she is in the bathroom. - A girl that I'm friends with did the obligatory hugs/best friends confession with another girl in front of me at the bar, and as soon as she walked away, my friend confessed that she couldn't stand that person. That didn't stop her from spending the next hour planning a weekend shopping spree with her, though. Now, these are VERY small examples of what I'm talking about (I can't remember more off the top of my head, but I could go for hours), and I know that every girl is not like this, but I'm sure that yall know exactly what I mean. I honestly don't know how girls can be friends with other girls. Focus: Discuss this phenomenon- do you thing that girls are unnecessarily mean to each other? Give examples, and tell us why you think that is. Ladies- if you have encountered this, give your take and what you think might be the reason for such aggressiveness amongst your "friends".