I think this one is way too interesting to be lost in Men/Women guide and should be discussed appropriately...especially after reading Pinkcups' reply. Woah. From Superfantastic:So we agree then, dick pics are stupid. Very well then. Not sure if this has been covered, and I'm not going back to look, but it seems like we haven't discussed anal play extensively. I know full out anal sex is a delicate subject for most girls, aside from the small percentage who actually crave it (any Tibettes fall into this category/care to explain why?), and I've found that all girls love their asses being grabbed and squeezed as much as I/the theoretical guy wants. But what about the stuff in between grabbing and anal sex? This idea was sparked from someone mentioning butt plugs in the night drawer thread. I've never used one on a girl, though I totally would, but I enjoy rubbing a finger up and down her crack during doggy, or even inserting a finger or two if she's down. I've also been known to get adventurous with my tongue during/immediately after a shower. I've never put a finger in without permission, but I've taken the initiative with rubbing/licking and have always had good results. FOCUS: Tibettes (or Tibers, I guess): where do you fall on the anal play spectrum? Ever try/consider trying butt plugs? Do you demand ATM on the regular, or do you get nervous the minute your cheeks get spread even a little? ALT FOCUS: Or better yet, what are the do's and don't's of anal? How do you get your girl/guy to try it if he/she is unwilling?