I think I'm in the majority here with Creampie for real life but the money shot for Porno. I did have a question (maybe for the ladies but if any guy has heard of it, go for it). I dated a girl when I was about 19 years old, 9 years ago, for a year. While she never, ever, EVER let me finish inside of her once, she loved being covered in it. She would rub it all over her body because she claimed it was great for her skin. I'd never heard of that before that time and no girl has ever said it after. I did search the internet but nothing too conclusive for me. What is everyone's thoughts on this? Was it just an old wives tales men came up with to get women to accept money shots?
Ok first of all yuck.What a sticky gross mess. And second I've never heard of such a thing. It's protein not anything fat/oil based as in most moisturizers. I have no problem with this at all. It's ummmm, kind of sweet and salty. I know I'm clean so why not? I actually like it, a lot.
See? I thought the opposite. I thought these were clearly the words of someone who'd never been with a real, live woman before. He sounds like he's basing his whole sexuality WITHIN porn, because he has no experience outside of it.
The only time I have ever heard this was (I thought, at least) facetiously. Specifically, "How do I get her to go for a facial?" "Tell her it's good for her skin or something."
I have to second this. My first time ended in a midriff money shot. My ex-wife was terrible about remembering to take her birth control pills, and so "pulling out" was unfortunately part of our routine. I would have to check the pill container every time we did it because I couldn't trust her to remember.
Whenever bare-backing, pill or no pill, I've always been too nervous to cum inside a girl for fear of knocking her up and always pull out. The only one that used to beg me to cum in her was a MILF, who claimed her tubes were tied, but I still couldn't do it. But as to whether I blow on their stomachs, ass, tits or face depends for me. I lived with a long-term girlfriend and maybe came in her mouth once; she just wasn't the type for me. I dated another girl who typically begged me to cum on her face or tits and I usually obliged her. Depends.
Uh this is a total fucking contradiction. I didn't mean to call anyone out here, but when you are humiliating someone, you are dominating them. Just not in the good sense. I hope you jumped to the next thread, I want to hear more about your psychology.
It's a completely degrading act if you get down to the roots of it. I love giving a good facial, I enjoy it and if the lady wants it, so does she. I'm not sure why some women love it; daddy issues maybe, although, that's kind of a scapegoat for everything these days. I also love being overly dominant during sex and I am rarely submissive in any way. A couple of friends and I were talking about sex a while ago and I mentioned that I'm into that kind of thing and they gave me the weirdest looks, mainly because it's not something anyone expects out of me. Normally, I'm quiet guy who is ridiculously laid back; not someone you would expect to do the things I do in bed. I'm also curious why you think it's a bad thing to dominate in the bedroom. I never take any of my sexual deviance's outside of the bedroom unless it's something the woman I'm with is into (IE: teasing in public, touchy grabby shit or humiliation play). I'm never going to spank some random chick in public nor am I going to call her a whore. Humiliation and dominance is just another tool in a series of ways to have good sex, it's no different than using needle play, whips and chains or rose pedals on the bed sheet with the soft glow of candles filling the room. In fact, I say it's more healthy to express those kinks in the bedroom than to keep them hidden.
(I prefer to call it "internal" rather than a c.p.) Internal, internal, internal unless otherwise requested. Seriously, what guy is carrying a bunch of condoms with them nowadays? I hate having a wallet in my pocket and a condom in a money clip might be the douchiest looking thing I can imagine. Feels better for me and I won't have to lead her to the bathroom like a seeing eye dog like I would if I baby gravy'd her face.
Once again I'm late to a very interesting party, but whatever. I'm headed straight over to the Drunk Thread from here.. Focus: Definitely the cream pie. Especially with a girlfriend. There's just something intrinsically hot when she knows you're almost there, and she looks into your eyes with a sly smile as she starts tickling your balls and says "Cum for me baby.. fill my wet little pussy". You aren't getting that from a facial..
It's hard to aim a money shot when you're blacking out, dangling from your belt on your pull-up bar. It's like sexual pin the tail on the donkey. You can spin around and everything.
See, the only difference here is if you are fortunate enough to have a girl who will let you finish in her mouth. With my ex, even on BC, she didn't want me to finish inside her. Just was paranoid I guess. So we would go at it, then I would just let her know I was about to blow, and she would spin around, slide down, or whatever, and finish me off orally. Yeah, there is that annoying break in rhythm and sensation, but holy mother of god, that re-upping of sensory overload is pretty incredible. Depending on timing and quality of last second oral, I had some ridiculous orgasms. FOCUS: Definitely creampie. Its just epic. Ive had multiple situations where I have to pull out and just don't like it. I feel like a porn douche with my O face, dick in hand. Its messy as hell, and you just kind of sit there awkwardly. Ive never had a girl let me blow on her face. Tits, ass, stomach, sure. But face, not yet. So maybe once for kicks. But after that, mouth or vagina only please.