Basically I like the finality of the cumshot. It is a good way to close out the porn with a solid act. I like lesbian porn, but there is no real finish. They chicks just look at each other and what not. But the cum shot adds the "Wam, bam, thank you maam" element we all so desire in porn. I think that if I hadn't ever watched porn I would have ever had the idea to even try it. But in a way it makes sense. I can go for round two pretty quickly, and I don't particularly like having a load of jizz in there getting pushed around as I thrust.
There is absolutely no other option than a cervix painting. Having to pull out and start cranking your dick like you're trying to start a Model T is about as unsexy as listening to your mom describe her first time. It's fucking unnatural. Like standing up to wipe.
I think it is good and bad. I think it can be good if you have been around the block a few times and want to spice things up a bit. Throw on some porn and go at it. I think it is bad if you are new to sexual relations and jump straight from holding hands to bukakke. With a lot of it, I think that there is a certain element of degradation and dominance, with some misogynistic undertones that the young folks can't really wrap their brains around at that stage of their lives. What people see as "normal" and "expected" has become a bit skewed as more and more is done to kind up the ante and raise more shock value. I mean, with all the porn out there just yours for the watching, how does somebody make something different? And the bar keeps getting moved higher and higher.
I don't know, man. My mom has a way of telling that story that makes it pretty fucking hot every time I hear it. Wait, what? Anyway... Creampie all the way for me as well. It feels better, going balls deep, and knowing that after you leave the bathroom stall, hand in hand, she still has your load inside her. It's the little things that keeps the spark alive, you see.
The former is innate, the later is not. Can't believe this is even up for debate. The stop-start of pulling out to cum on a girl's face/tits/ass is a mood-killer. It's much better when you can just go right into your orgasm without having to time the motherfucker. As one female on here recently told me, "Guys never fuck better than the 30 seconds or so before they orgasm." Case in point: NSFW http://www.slutload.com/watch/1ZnOwOoNuMo/My-GF-Cums-Hard.html
I was dating this girl who'd been on the shot since she was 13. She didn't like to get messy, and I didn't like to pull out anyway. One day, we went to a movie after a session, and as we're walking up to the theater, she kinda shivers and squirms, turns to me and half giggles, half whispers, "I'm leaking." I wouldn't trade that for anything.
That was kind of what I was getting at by asking if similar behavior existed in gay porn, but as I was told via rep "No need to ruin a perfectly good thread with gay imagery". Although I am sure there must be the same elements of control no matter who the subject matter is (although not quite as prevalent with lesbian* porn, at least the ones that I am drawn to). *There I mentioned lesbians, maybe that will balance things out.
In my experience there's a time and place for everything. My current girlfriend is what I'd refer to as a prude but like every girl has a kinky side. That's the key in a healthy sexual relationship, knowing when things are appropriate.
It's a degradation fetish. It's more fun if you can humiliate someone while orgasming by blowing a thick wad across their face, or if lucky, in their eyes. It'll burn, and that's the point. It's also fun if you blow it across their face and then smear it like a windshield wiper, pop in their nostril so they choke, or fart in their face aftewards. Dogfart.com has taught me ways to make love to a woman I never knew existed. Thank you Dogfart!
I really don't think the right word is "supposed" as it is more an act that is a prize for finding a girl that is willing to do it (part notch on your belt part degrading act). At least from the people I know it's treated more like anal, where it is rare for girls to be immediately down for it and you are lucky to find one that is. You people act like porn ONLY sexual education for youths. How many of you actually pulled out to blast the girls face the first time you had sex?
So a donkey fucking a woman in Tijuana is "sick"? Even if it's consensual? How about a woman waiting for 40 guys to ejaculate on her face while her face is already crusty from the first 40, is that "sick"? Richard Gere with a gerbil running around his intestines like a habittrail? DP'ing? Enemas? Power drills with a rubber fist on the end? Get over yourself, Nancy boy. If you don't like how Americans fuck, go over to the conservative Middle East and fuck a burka and decapitate her afterwards for showing a little too much ankle.
I prefer the sensation of cumming inside, I really don't see how there can be any sort of argument against that, unless you're a VERY visual person. However, for aesthetics in porn, I much prefer seeing a pretty face get covered in cum (avoid the eyes and hair, it's only polite) to some closeup of the guy's taint as he's pounding away.
Why is there no "Neither" option? Some people can't afford to waste seed like this. Some people have a very rigid monthly donation quota for the Jar of Future Kings that lives in their freezer. Not me, but some people. Well, that did it. I've finally creeped myself out on the Internet.
I prefer the creampie. But even moreso than that, I like the "finish in her mouth while she swallows the whole load without dribbling anything". I love my girlfriend.
I'm going to make some mass generalizations in this post, as a fair warning before you read it. It's only my own observations that I've noted over the course of my life. I think, for men, sex is very strongly equated with power; it is fundamentally an act of power. The 'hate fuck' is a good example. Quite a few guys could fuck the shit out of someone they couldn't stand; in fact, not being able to stand a person is often motivation enough to fuck them. Given this (what I believe, anyway) aspect of the male psyche, is it so far fetched that shows of power/submission or degradation are present in many sexual acts, specifically male-geared porn? Is that 'deviant'? Women, on the other hand, tend to strongly connect sex and emotion. Far fewer women would brag about hate fucking somebody because sex and power aren't as closely linked in our minds. I think this is why you often don't see the degradation and humiliation in female-geared porn. Obviously, I'm painting with broad strokes here and there are exceptions to every rule. However, to label cumming on a girl's face as 'deviant' is a bit of a stretch, in my opinion. Focus: Internal is, far and away, the preferred method. A poster who shall remain anonymous stole my point when quoted me as saying that guys always fuck the best when they're about 30 seconds away from cumming. Too often the guy is preoccupied with not ejaculating and isn't in the moment; when he decides to cum and lets go...really, it's the best. Having to stop that flow (no pun intended) to pull out ruins it.
This is like saying training or competing in MMA is no different than beating the crap out of random people on the street. As for me--in real life, I prefer the creampie about 75% of the time and the money shot about 25%. In porn, those percentages are reversed.
Personally, I prefer busting a nut in my girlfriend except when I haven't had a tug in awhile and I know that there is some back pressure. If thats the case, I jump up, grab her by the hair, tilt her head and let loose all over that beautiful smiling face.
But that's the thing. Everyone's different, and what floats your boat might sink someone else's. I mean, the classic example is comparing straights and gays. Different strokes for different folks, but assuming it's consensual, nothing on either side of that spectrum can really be considered right or wrong, can it? FOCUS: I like to mix it up a bit. Depending on the mood and the situation I might go for the creampie and jackhammer the shit out of her, or I might have her sit up while I drop a 6-roper on those lovely 36DDD funbags of hers while she holds them together, or I might fire the ol' baby batter all over her face, with bonus points awarded if she's wearing her glasses. Hell, if I'm taking her from behind I might just pull out and attempt a long distance challenge using the vertebrae as markers. However, if I had to pick one or the other, I'd choose the creampie, if only because the girlfriend loves to get up on top and watch it pulse and throb while she rides me, which only makes it hotter. *sigh* I wish she didn't have to work so early or I'd wake her up right now. I'll be in the Boobie Thread if anyone needs me.
I always had the fear of knocking up a chick so it was normal procedure to pull out right before climax and blow on the tits/stomach. Also most chicks would gladly take this pearl paintjob it seemed because it was the safer alternative than blowing inside her,even if she was on the pill.