An interesting topic was brought up in the WDT, cheating. If your spouse cheated on you how would you react? I heard two compelling thoughts, the first is that everyone is fallible and if it happens once it can be worked through and forgiven, the other was that it is unforgivable and that if someone cheats on you its time to move on. Me, it depends. if it was a one time thing I'm inclined to try to reconcile, but if the cheating is an emotional and physical thing, I'd be inclined to try to be honest about the state of the relationship and move on. Focus: Cheating, have you been cheated on? Alt Focus: How would you react if someone cheated on you? UnFocus: Would you cheat, have you ever cheated on someone else? If you haven't, can you think of a scenario where you might? If you have cheated on someone, what occurred to create the scenario where that happened?