Several factors. As with much in life, you get what you pay for. Sure, you can bust a nut with a $50 hooker. And there's a chance it might even be good. But there's a much higher likelihood of it being good or even great if you go through an established and reputable agency or provider. Girls are generally more attractive and personable because agencies hire us based on our looks and personality. Also, by contacting a cheap girl online, you run the risk of exchanging personal information, and that door cannot be closed. Agencies are a buffer, a way to maintain discretion on both ends. Obviously, there are no guarantees in sex, except that someone will get fucked one way or the other. At least using an agency or well known provider increases the chances of you enjoying it. Without your wife, girlfriend, or coworkers finding out. Many of my friends and acquaintances already know what I do. The man I hope to one day marry has a vague sense of what I do. I don't want to hide my past because I'm not ashamed of myself or what I've done, and I truly am a better person for my experiences. I do my damndest not to judge people because I've been judged so much. I will be happy to discuss my history with my future partner, but I will gauge just how much information I share based on their initial reaction. I would like to say that I'll definitely end up with the most laidback, non-judgmental man on Earth, but I have no guarantees, and I'm a sucker for a fairy tale ending, so I would certainly withhold details that I thought might damage my relationship. I will do what it takes to protect myself and my future, but I'll also do my best to be honest about my past in the process. I hope my family never knows. My parents are heavily conservative Christians, as are my grandparents, and I think it would break their hearts and boggle their minds to know what I'm doing. I pray that they remain blissfully unaware. And you're quite welcome. Thank you for the support! I'm thinking this question is moot because I don't live near you. Regardless, I don't think I have the maturity, life experience, or time necessary to moderate. I'm only 21. I haven't graduated college. I haven't lived in poverty, fought in a war, had kids, or been responsible for much more than a pet doggie. Perhaps I'll change my mind, and when I do, we can negotiate. In private. If you know what I mean.
What is a weekly average income look like? How much do you think you've totaled in your time? Are there girls that put in 40 hours a week or is it more a 10-15 hour gig and then do what ever the fuck you want with the rest of the time?
Hopefully, I won't repeat anything said before. 1. Why do a number of friends and acquaintances know about your vocation? Isn't that the kind of borderline illegal shit you want to keep secret? Did they find out for themselves, or did you tell them? 2. Are there specific income brackets that certain escort agencies, or for that matter, hookers, cater to? For instance, you mentioned the $50 Craigslist advertisements. You are in the $300+ per hour bracket. Eliot Spitzer spent thousands per hour on an even more expensive girl. Is there one set up for each type of clientele, or is your agency pretty much as expensive and high-end as it normally gets? 3. Is it particularly difficult, after fucking someone for several hours for $1000, to go back to studying for the biology quiz at your college? Thanks again for candidly answering all these question in such considerable detail.
The simple fact that you know and understand your shortcomings means you're miles ahead of most folks your age. I reckon you're doing better than you think. FOCUS: If you were ever cornered by a cop and blackmailed for your services, would you go through with it, or would you risk the alternative?
Armpit licking is considered creepy ? What about a couple of licks followed by a sniff as opposed to treating the said armpit like a 30 cent cone from McDonalds.
Shoot, the average part-time job is 15-20 hours a week; assuming each call is an hour long, she's only looking at 10 hours per week. And I'm guessing that escorting has fairly flexible hours, so come finals time she could easily kick back her hours to allow for more studying. Focus: Is there any job you would rather have over being an escort? Are you an escort only because it is the best job that you can find, or is being an escort your top choice profession for your college career?
Eep, definitely not my experience. Haven't logged on in a bit, but someone told me this thread existed so I had to come see. Quite a difference, maybe because of American/Canadian, agency/independent, full-time/part-time differences. Anyway.
Wait. Are you a provider, or a consumer? You can't just say something like that without filling us in on the most basic of details. Are you saying that you're a Canadian independent full-time escort? Please elaborate.
Elaborate, I will! I actually struggled with replying to this thread, or not replying, but hey. I'm here now. I'm a Canadian independent part-time escort. I have a full-time job and part-time classes, I love to fuck & I'm smart enough to get paid for it
Interesting. What's your take on Oh Shit's thoughts? Not asking you to answer each and every question, but it'd be interesting if you could point out where your thoughts/experiences differed, or add your own experiences, etc., that be cool.
Hell... anyone else willing to come out of the escorting-closet? Amateur Status welcome as well... I've heard from one board member that had actually contemplated it, but opted not to for various reasons... anyone else? (But don't get all judgmental or pissy about why you chose not to, or you'll take a short vacation... these kind Women of the Night are offering a glimpse into their innermost secrets, and we should all respect that and not do anything to piss them off or scare them away... kapeesh?)
Could do. I didn't want to jump in here and derail her thread, and I don't have enough liquor in the house to deal with five pages of thread. Could be my project for later tonight, when I'm back from a date & properly sauced. ps. I don't scare easily, and pissing me off just earns you an earful. I'm quite happy to take on the judgementals.
This is some good reading. I'll try and direct this towards oh shit, but artificial feel free to answer as well. A lot of people will say that women by design link the physical action of sex with emotional aspects of a relationship. In my experience with friends with benefits it has always been the girl who gets attached and makes things messy. Does the money make a line in the sand separating the two? Do you have a therapist? I can imagine that having one could be helpful, and though you sound very mature, it could help to get one to help ensure the longevity of your career. And I can't seem to find x on TER. Maybe I can't use the search function correctly...
And just to be clear (and answering a PM I've received), smoking pole for crack doesn't count. We'll do a Crack Ho thread / Dating Guide later on, if anyone's interested.
Do you find that working as an Escort changes the way you look at all men in general? Do you worry about being able to quit a job making $170 for something more mundane?
This is absolutely intriguing. I actually have a friend in the same profession however I have always been reluctant to forge an attempt at satiating my curiosities in regards to the line of work because: a) I don't want to annoy her by bombarding her with all of my questions. and b) Because it's a job, and unless you're completely uninteresting, no one wants to talk about their job all of the time. This is why I make it a point to never inquire about what someone does for money. It rarely describes who they are as a person. One thing I have learned is that it is not only more informative, but infinitely more charming to ask someone what they love to do. Anyway, for divulging all of this information, you're a cool motherfucker in my book. I also appreciate your articulacy and candidness.