Some of you may remember from the RMMB that my wife tntNikki and I did an 'Ask a Pervert' thread - where we answered all questions about what it's like to be involved in the BDSM/alternate sexuality scenes. We're currently in the process of re-posting a lot of those questions and answers at <a class="postlink" href="http://askapervert.blogspot.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://askapervert.blogspot.com/</a> now that the RMMB is gone; and posting some new material that's been asked by private message or Email since then. But we always kind of felt like the last thread hadn't really run it's course when it closed at the RMMB and judging from my in box - there's still plenty of people with unasked questions - so I thought we might do it again for the people who missed out last time (some of it was up in a poorly edited format at my blog - but we decided that it wasn't fair to claim that content as 'mine' when Nikki was at least as heavily involved as I was in answering questions). As a short synopsis, I'm 28, bisexual and I've been sexually weird since I discovered that orgasms were fun. I started reading about BDSM when I was 14 and experimenting with girlfriends when I was 15. I started going to public fetish events with fake ID when I was 17. I've been pretty much constantly involved ever since. I have Aspergers syndrome and a history of heavy substance abuse that for some reason also always seems to come up. I was a swinger for a while as well as a pervert. Nikki is a few years older then me, also bisexual and has also been into kink for a long time. She can post her own little introduction if she wants to - but suffice to say she also knows what she's talking about and is an interesting person. She is a woman in the scene and a switch - which is to say she likes both being in control and not being in control, doing things to other people and having things done to her, depending on the situation. I'm a guy and a Dominant Top - which means I like being in control and doing things to other people - and not the reverse. So she adds a lot of perspective to these conversations that I can't. We have both run workshops and taught new people the skills and safety stuff for kink stuff publicly and privately and we have both been Dungeon Monitors (the perverts that make sure other perverts aren't doing stupidly dangerous stuff at public parties) at fairly large public events. We have been married for about 5 years, but we aren't monogamous; We're also not swingers and we don't go out and swap partners with other couples or anything like that (although we both have done things in that vein in past relationships). We have some other people involved in our lives to varying degrees from friends to pets to people we keep around because we adore them and they let us hit them with stuff. We live in Queensland Australia, but Nikki is Canadian and we've both traveled fairly extensively. Almost any question you have about unconventional sexualities or unconventional sexual practices - we can answer, even if it's not our thing in particular. Ask away.